Sunday, July 15, 2007

characteristics and qualities





1. Looking back at the list of your positive characteristics and qualities, what do you feel and realize about it?

~~ i realized i should be happy with what i am, as i said last meeting i don't get mad easily. and i realized i should like myself first because if i won't like myself no one else will.

2. The Golden Rule says, "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."

a. Given the following situations, how would you like to be treated by your teachers and schoolmates:

- when you have given wrong answers to the questions during recitation;
~~ i would definitely like them to correct me.

- when you are expressing your opinion during class or group discussion;
~~ i would like people to listen to what i'm saying and give comments.

- when you are giving suggestions during group work or presentation;
~~ i want them to listen to my suggestions and tell me directly if they don't like it. there's no need to tell other people that my suggestion's lame or anything.

- when you commit mistake;
~~ i want them to help me correct my mistakes, i don't them to tell me that it's ok.

- when you don't like doing what they ask you to do;
~~I'll tell them directly that i don't like to.

- when they want to give you comments or suggestions?
~~I'll listen, if it's ok with me then I'll do it.

b. Considering the given ideas on how to treat others with respect what can you commit to yourself in terms of dealing with the MCL community: teachers, students, employees, security, maintenance/janitors and canteen personnel?

~~ i should learn how to respect each member of the MCL community, for the teachers and other employees, it doesn't matter if they are just "being paid" to do their job, they are way older than me so i should know how to treat them with respect.

And for my co-students i should respect them as they respect me. an example is for those students who has a different religion, i shouldn't be against their beliefs. and for those who has their own suggestions for whatever activity we are doing i should listen to each one's opinion because i can also learn from them.